Dad kicked out his kids, but he didn’t imagine that Years Later they would come back to get revenge

Family is the single most important influence in a child’s life from their first moments of life children depend on parents and family to protect them and provide for their needs parents and family form a child’s first relationships family provides all members with security identity and values regardless of age there’s nothing important than family

They always come first the meaning of family is to be with you until the end of your life whether you’re in heights or downs family means the people you’re surrounded by you never sacrifice relationships because they’re most important things in our life your family comes first family means the people who help us in times of needs and cherish each and every moment of our life

Family is the only thing that will stay with us forever whatever the situation is family’s the best gift god ever gave us family means the people with whom we’re connected emotionally they can be anyone your neighbors your relatives your friends everyone comes under family if a child has parents who are abusive and destructive they would be better off with other parents blood related doesn’t necessarily mean

Better people far too many people take advantage of that these days the most important people in your life need to be the people you trust and respect the most that isn’t always family plus you can’t choose family and trust and respect are earned not just given plus family doesn’t just mean as much as it used to as more people have children out of wedlock and without stable relationships so the importance of

Family has eroded somewhat because it just doesn’t exist as often as it used to shawn and his sister alberta face the cruelest thing in life from their bone back every child seeing his parents the powerful people they can carry on after years he took his revenge from abused father that changed his life forever sean whalen knows firsthand the pain and trauma caused by a bitter divorce he vividly remembers the day he came

Home as a little boy only to find his father had changed the locks there had been a nasty fight earlier that day and so sean his little brother and his mother were kicked out of their home and suddenly left to fend for themselves now that shawn is a single dad to three growing kids he’s come to understand the strength and determination it took for his mother to push forward raising him and his brother against all odds recently sean took his son to grab

Dinner at a chinese restaurant he couldn’t help but notice that there was something oddly familiar about their unassuming waitress over small talk in water refills i got the sense that this single mom didn’t want to be there but had to be there and she was doing her best to smile shawn wrote on facebook it tore my heart out the kind yet burdened server reminded sean of his own mother instead of paying his bills and walking

Away sean did something for the waitress at the chinese restaurant that’s taking the internet by storm when you see it i guarantee you’ll be moved in a big big way divorce the day my parents split up is forever etched in my mind dad and me get into a big fight me mom and my little brother take off because my dad’s going nuts we stayed at a hotel that night when we came back the next

Day my dad had changed the locks i watched my mom plead with him through the door to let us in to get clothes etc he wouldn’t we had to go back later that day with a police escort i’ll never forget the cops handing me a black trash bag saying i had 10 minutes to take the necessities i loaded up all the clothes i could fit into the bag and that was the last time i ever stepped foot in the house i was raised in no baseball trophies none of

My 10 000 baseball cards none of my stuff how i even left my pet turtle mom my little brother and me moved into a little condo and didn’t have jack people from the church brought over pots pans couches beds and food my dad cashed out the bank and literally left my mom with the money in her pocket not a damn thing she could do no family around no real support other than strangers from church

I still to this day don’t know how she did it i have no idea how she didn’t throw in a towel at times i would have i remember vividly walking past her room countless nights seeing her on her knees praying i can only fathom what those conversations were like between her and god i can only fathom the amount of tears that poured down this sweet woman’s face as she pleaded with god for a break i’ve felt some intense pain in my day

I’ve questioned many things but this single mom with two boys never gave up she never one time gave up i only began to realize what mom went through working multiple jobs when i became a single parent i never understood when i was young the grind and effort she put in for me and my little brother she hustled she worked her ass off just to get by she did everything she could so that my brother and i had everything we ever wanted but

She worked man hard tonight as my son and i sat in this little crappy chinese joint we love there was a new waitress she stuck out like a sore thumb the owners are chinese the workers are chinese and this little white waitress she was absolutely fantastic and kept complimenting my son on his manners we ate our dinner over small talk and water refills i got the sense that this single mom didn’t

Want to be there but had to be there and she was doing her best to smile it tore my heart out i thought of my mom and i saw the same hustle in this woman that i saw in my mom a single mom was killed by his actions god bless my late mother florence maybe by choice maybe not but working on a wednesday night to ensure she can put food on the table and shoes on the kids feets not for opulence not for status but to live

To hopefully be able to provide the things for her kids that will put a smile on their face i empathize for her i felt her pain i kept thinking of my mom and how difficult it is for a single woman to go from homemaker to a breadwinner i can’t even begin to understand what that must be like for some moms i know my tip won’t pay her rent i know my tip won’t pay for kids braces i know my tip won’t keep the fridge full

But i hope tonight that in some way it put a smile on her face and she can go home to her babies happier than when she left them i don’t know her whole story i don’t need to i felt tonight that maybe along the way someone did this for my mom and that’s what kept her going on nights she wanted to quit i don’t know i’ll likely never know but i do know this

I’ve been blessed beyond measure and my mother paved the way for my persistence she showed me how to bounce back she showed me what work and effort is i hope this small gesture with my son tonight brightens this woman’s life so she can wake up tomorrow and fight a good fight single moms who grind respect you’re beautiful and your posterity will learn from your efforts they’re watching you just as i watched my mom

Mom i love you you’re my hero now i had the money to took your revenge from him we put him in mind prison alone and no one cared about him he’ll pay till death for what he did to us true family what we made with pain can never separate us he deserved died every day for each pain we felt i told his wife what he did and she abandoned him karma take action fathers are people and all people have

The potential to be abusive abusive people in positions of power have more ability to be abusive and in most cultures the father is still the most powerful person in a family giving them the ability to be abusive if they’re an abusive person people are usually abusive because they’re insecure and they try to overcome that insecurity by controlling other people in an attempt to make themselves more secure

Some people just crave that power and control all by itself abuse is usually about control trauma affects the subconscious much more than it affects our conscious thinking process it trains us to be sensitive to anything that even remotely reminds us of the things that happening leading up to the trauma this training happens in a way that seems beyond conscious control

So automatically it’s probably a feature of our brains that’s evolved it would seem to be important to be highly sensitive to the signs of impending trauma trauma is a kind of learning experience that the brain apparently pays a lot of attention to therefore the brain automatically remembers a lot about what led to the trauma and it holds on to these memories much more tenaciously than it does to

Other kinds of memories that’s because trauma can threaten survival more than anything else and so of course the brain would evolve to remember it more than any other experience people who do not learn to pay attention to the signs of impending trauma probably do not survive to reproduce nearly as often family are your blood and can be the foundation of your life

As you go through life you’ll find friends that are like family and it makes your life so much richer we are very short term nowadays that’s why we have so many problems and the divide and conquer works the ideal starting point for a family is a parcel of land big enough to house them all and feed them all with water and power resources you may not get many of them in the city if children were educated to make money

Invested into the family pod and make sure everyone has a good quality of life then each new generation would carry on the good work and build the family treasure if we’re going to get greener and gentler with our journey on this planet then we need to change our ideas or we’ll all end up robots working for the state rather than people of the land be the best that you can be it’s going to take a lot to get back to where we

Came from and keep our technology advantages you must make the choice to take the chance if you want anything in life to change in the end we only regret the chances we didn’t take sometimes life doesn’t give you what you want not because you don’t deserve it but because you deserve so much more what an incredible inspiring state of love and loss it takes a lot of courage and strength to be what you are and his

Words are truly touching if you agree please share thanks for reading.